This week me and a good friend of mine had a discussion about boundaries! This is something that is still on my mind. If you don’t know me I tend to overthink things sometimes. She made me realize that when I am invested in something or someone I don’t have boundaries. I am still processing if this is a good or bad thing. Some of the points she made is that with out boundaries you can begin to have anxiety, be overworked and have nothing left to give the ones you love. But to me boundaries means stipulations, means I can’t call you or I have to follow a set of rules.
But regardless of what my decision is I appreciate and thank her for bringing this to my attention and making me aware to know just because I don’t have boundaries it doesn’t mean other people
Mama’s I appreciate friends who open your eyes to new views. You can’t be the smartest one in your circle you need to be able to learn from one another. You have to be open for discussions, real friends don’t agree with everything you say they support you and correct you when you are wrong as well as congratulate you when you are doing things right!
Be Blessed Mamas!!!!!
FYI : I will be posting on the blog once a week while I am in school. Didn’t want you all to think I forgot about you ! 😘