You always hear the statement “words hurt” “be careful what you say”. As a mama we always try to encourage our children tell them that we Love them, tell them how great they are doing, and how proud we are of them and how they mean the world to us!
Today I wanted to talk to the real mamas who are goin stir crazy at home and may be saying other words that we may regret!
I know I have !!!Remember I’m here to be transparent. Now my kids mean the world to me!!! They are my everything, and everyday I try so hard to keep a calm voice and give constant hugs and kisses. But there are days that they get on my LAST NERVE! In these time you may hear me say or yell…. “you’ve got to be kidding me” “are you serious?” “make another choice”, “you’re driving me crazy” “try again”, “you better not…”, “get over here now”, “you didn’t hear me the first time”, and “Don’t make me count”!
Now I am not proud of these moments AT ALL!! In these moments I sometimes cry, I’ve beat myself up because I know that my words can hurt my children! Because I know this it is sooooo important to apologize to them ( I know I know some of you are like… I am the adult I don’t need to apologize to a child…)! But it is important to them and say “I’m sorry” and that “I’m human” and “that I’m doing the best I can”! I ask my children just to just give me a little bit of Grace.
***Remember we are raising adults!” “Monkey see monkey do”
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